Sex Tip #3 - Give him a Hand
Do you worry about premature ejaculation? It is nothing to be ashamed of because the way that nature has formed our bodies is that woman always orgasm after men and sometimes, women get left high and dry because the man ejaculates and the deed is done.
There are a couple of ways to prevent premature ejaculation, this tip today is about not embarrassing him buy making him use desensitizing cream (that will come in a future article).
Today's tip about enjoying sex more for both men and women is to use a masturbator sleeve on him first. These small hand held devices are made of a soft jelly like material, some are made of a rubber-silicone blend.
Regardless of what it's made of, they are a stretchy tube that is a sex toy for men to get him off real quick. They feel incredibly good and amazing. Men report that since they use a masturbator sleeve, they rarely ever use only their hand ever again.
The tip today is not to give it to him, but to use a sex toy in part for foreplay. The woman is supposed to use the sleeve in him. i recommend him standing in the shower because his penis head will pop out of the tip of the sleeve and when he ejaculates, it will spill out so if you are in the shower, it makers an easy place to clean up. Alternatively, you can us the sex toy as part of oral sex and swallow, it's up to you. He might like the latter better.
After using the masturbator sleeve on him, he will be sensitive for a while, but them you can use this opportunity for foreplay on you. he can use a sex toy on you or give you a massage, wherever it may be. There may be time for him to "heal" before it's your turn so maybe you could even have orgasm before you have sex.
This will leave your moment of sexual intercourse to be really intimate and exciting because both of you will have heightened sexes and a more sensitive touch. In my opinion, this is the best sex tip for both partners!
Men might think that they are done with sex after this and it may be true, but it allows plenty of time to satisfy the eomwne while maintaining the erotic mood. After using the sleeve, it leads up to a really kinky frame of mind and you might be inclined to try other new things. This also is a future sex tip idea. Stay tuned!
Sex Tip #2 - Maintain Eye Contact
Eye contact is the essential sex tip for enhancing the intimacy. When two lovers maintain eye contact, it heightens the mood because the eyes are the windows to the soul. It's like Kama Sutrs becuase you can really get involed not just physically but emotionally and psychilogically and become whole.
When you gaze at your lover, the look speaks volumes. You can sense what they want you to do. usually in a relationship, the dominant one is the one who does the eye contact, staring the lover down to make them submissive to their desires. If you want to domain ate or if you are the domineering type, then you know this already. The submissive people are the ones usually to follow, like following the lead during a swing dance.
By gazing into the eyes and commanding your lover, you can experience a new type of sex. Take the lead and be the master by commanding with your eyes. Eye contact is also good for keeping the heat. Think abotu a porn movie, the girl who is giving oral sex always makes eye comtact with the man. There is somethign so inexplicably erotic about looking into each others eyes.
Another tip for eye contact is if you wan to dominate the dominant women. She will use her eyes and it's up to you to yse yours too to show her that you mean busines and will not be her putty play thing. By having sex with two dominants, the sex can be fun, explosive and quite active as each of you try to mauveuer each other into the position that you want. Try using sex toys too.
Remember when you first met? It wa all about the eye contact. that's what let each of you know that you are interested in each other. Maintian this eye contact and it will have the same effect as the first time you met, you can read and write each other to do what you want.
If you feel Sexy, you are Sexy.
This sex tips is for yourself. It's not really a sex tip either, it's all a precursor to anything sexual, even foreplay.
pamper yourself. If you feel sexy, you are sexy. get a manicure (for a woman) or buy new shoes, get your hair done, get something new. Material goods are good for temporary uplifting feel, and it makes you happy which makes you feel better. I don;\'t mean to take this too literally and spend all your money and get a line of credit to spoil yourself, I mean get a few nice peices to add to your look and add to your mood.
When you are happy and have new sunglasses for example, you feel sexier then before. use that feel and treat yourself. When you feel good, you look good.
It all lies with your self confidence. The more confident you are, the better you feel and the sexier of a vibe you radiate. Using a female sexual vibrator is always a sure fire way to feel sexy quickly.
If you read Maxim or Cosmo magazine, you dee that they suggest all the new fashions and tips to make yourself feel sexy and liberated. Pick up a magazine and do what they say, you will feel rejuvenated. it's like a makeover for the body, mind and soul.
When you feel fresh and new, your sex life will glow. You will radiate sexiness and feel great, allowing you to engage in erotic foreplay and the best sex ever.
Treat yourself and you can treat your sex life in return.
Sex Tip #1 - Keep the Nails Trimmed
The first sex tip of the day is to keep your fingernails trimmed. This is equally important for men and women.
Many people have a fetish about being scratched and you can still fulfill this fetish by keeping trimmed, it's actually even better because then you don't have to worry about leaving scratch marks on the back that could turn into scars.
Sure it may be cool now, but when you are older and married to someone else, having scars from the nails of a former lover during some vicious sexual encounter is just like having a tattoo of the person's name on your arm!
Another reason that you should keep those fingernails trimmed is for health reasons. When a man is fingering a woman, bodily fluids will get caught under the nails and could easily harbor breeding for bacteria. It;s a gruesome image, i know but it's very important to prevent any kind of bacteria forming because you don't want to get sick. That gross, and I hope that men keep their nails trimmed after reading this!
For women, it's good to keep nails trimmed because when you give a hand job, you don't want to scratch the delicate penis tissue. So if you want to pull on his testicles( this will be a future sex tip1) then these are very delicate as you already know s be careful, it will be much m ore pleasurable lf you keep your fingernails trimmed.
Keep yourself trimmed and it will also show to other potential mates that if your hands are kept tidy, clean and proper then you are probably kept clean and nicely trimmed down there so it's a good idea on hoe the potential partner is with their hygiene!